Facade longing to be the best

Our constant desire to be the bet or to be better than others is the rote of all the trouble that people are encountering every day all across the world. The developed countries like United Sates, United Kingdom, Russia, China etc. are the perfect epitomize of that fact. In order to have control over the global markets these developed nations are involved in a perpetuate battle. Their desire to make their own nation appear the strongest than others is the main reason to invoke tension among themselves, which also eventually keep them busy in constant conflict purposelessly. Apart, from our desire to look oneself to be the best, we are likewise, driven by another destructive whim i.e. to have control over others lives.

If we think in bigger perspective the developed nations are constantly trying to lead the world according to their own purpose and there lies the actual problem of all conflicts. Every single nation wants the world to react as per their whim but in reality it is an impossible fact. For an example, America is relentlessly trying to capture the world market, whereas, the emerging Asian power, China is creating an invisible wall to sloth the growth of USA through their rapid progress.

Given a thought, we would quite easily understand that in our lives the route of most of our problems also lie buried in these two factors. One is to prove ourselves to be the best while subduing others voice and the other one is to have a longing in our mind to have control over others lives. It seems most of us is less bothered about our own satisfaction in succeeding our goal. We seem to be more concern about others approval or endorsement to enjoy our own success. Somewhere, the fail to grasp the true meaning of the word self-satisfaction and as a consequence, we instead of our own pleasure are more careful about others endorsement on different factors of our lives.

Alongside that our wish to have control over the lives of our close ones is another major reason for our gloominess. Actually, it is our expectations from other that forces us to consider things from our own perspective and when there is a clash between our expectations with reality, we eventually lose our mind. We start to consider different aspects and relationship of our lives in our own terms and that dissatisfaction brings about sadness in us.

Be it from the viewpoint of a nation or a single man, if one can feel the magnitude of these two facts from core than life would be at ease for him. Our imagination control most of our state of mind and very surprisingly that imagination has no connection with reality. We just keep on hovering around some baseless thoughts and gradually end up in a jigsaw. This conflict of our own imagination and reality brings about despair in our lives. The quicker we realize it the better it is for us.