It seems our endeavor to confine or secure everything that matters to us is actually one of the imperative reasons that beget sorrow for us in life. Our perpetual attempt to ensure the safety of the person or materialistic thing that holds immense value to us; never let us savor the pleasure of life. We restlessly seek for the security of that element or person and that in turn make us feel burdened all the time. Given it a considerable thought, we would realize that often it is due to our obsession about different aspects of life including relationships, do not work out according to our expectation. Our desire to tie every valuable element within our control never let us feel the true happiness of life.
With time as we grow old we eventually realize the essence to let those valuable aspects of life set free so that the fare of losing them never haunts us. In fact as soon as we learn to loosen the rein we feel contained within. Mostly it is for the financial security and our longing to bind our beloved persons to have control over them by applying different means of tactics bring about tension and disdain in our mind. In every minute we feel afraid to lose the person or thing that we love very much. We feel vulnerable and while trying to secure the safety for them we seldom become the reason to instigate difficulties in our lives.
It is through our experience that we gather from life teaches us to be comfortable in any situation. Our persuasion for the attempt to constrain our valuable possession and relations of life never let us contemplate the true magnitude of life. We always remain afraid about losing our control over them, whereas the secret to enjoy every valuable aspect of life lies in setting them free and enjoy the freedom of life in every moment. We become stubborn and possessive to establish our superiority over the person whom we love; we do not consider to triumph their heart by offering unconditional love to them.
However, we shall bear it in mind that life is all about feeling the beauty in mind then to physically establish our authority over someone. The time is very limited for all of us, and thus it is utterly important that we do not waste it in the endeavor to have dominance over someone rather, we learn to enjoy every valuable aspects of life through our compassion and benevolent approach.
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