Expectation seems to be the word that begets difficulties in our life. As a young kid we barely had any expectation from life and thus, life was indeed simple and full of happiness. With time as we grow old our expectations also expand eventually. The problem arises, only when there is conflict between our expectation and reality. Our expectation revolving each aspect of life seems to grow with our age; be it our expectation from parents or partner or our professional organization.
There is a subtle distinction
between expectation and acceptance. In fact it is our approach towards every
aspect in life that decides whether or not we can build a happy bonding with
someone provided that how we consider things in life? We make perpetual
endeavor lest any undesirable conflict in our relationship with our partner or
friends. Now if we just try to recapitulate the fact that it is mainly our
expectation from a relationship, regardless of its kind, solely decide the
nature of it. Given it a serious thought, we would surely realize the essence
of the fact that the root of almost every conflict of relationship in our life
lies in our expectation.
Just imagine instead of
feeding our expectation from others what if we learn to accept things as it is.
Nonetheless, having said that I must also admit that it is quite impossible to
accept every situation and event in life thus, I am here talking about
acceptance of things that may make our life more blissful. Our expectation only
intrigues our longing to let things turn, irrespective of its form, always in
our favor. On the other hand acceptance teaches us to be humble and welcoming
in life. It is solely our perception towards different element and phenomenon
of life that ensures our happiness. The quicker we can contemplate that fact
the sooner we shall elevate in life.
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